So, I have been using Boppy, but I think as she is getting bigger, it's not quite working anymore, I would also use the wedge pillow I got for my tummy during pregnancy to angle her and prop her head a bit, but like I said, it all just seems cumbersome now. I got a brestfriend, but I haven't had much success in using it. It just seems awkward. I feel silly for asking this, but what are the two large lumps on the pillow. Are they for her head to rest? I just can't quite the hang of it, but I want to so I can work on nursing upright again, and getting a good deep latch. Does anyone have any suggestions or ideas about what worked for you? I read an article on LowMilkSupply about how not using anything can put the baby in the best position for a good latch, but that just didn't work for us. Now that she is getting bigger, I am just not sure where to put her.