Thank you for all of your advice and input, it is so nice to know you are not the only one who has put on your tinfoil hat. Well I just got back from the LC (she was wonderful). We had a good two hours!!! Phoebe acted up, so she got to see that. The LC said she would have been extremely concerned too if this was her child and happening at home, so that made me feel better. She said that her latch is not as deep in mouth as is ideal, but that it seems like she knows where she wants the nipple and that she is comfortable with that. She recommended finger training (she gags a bit when the finger goes to back) and she also thinks she may have reflux, she said she wouldn't necessarily give meds for it though since positional changes seem to help. She said that she wouldn't worry about the latch as much laying down and that basically everything, is, yes, FINE. She said she is content, happy and alert. Oh, and in I think about 8-13 minutes, she got an ounce and half on the scale, so she is eating well. Plus if I decide I want or need to, I can go back in a week or two and just have a little follow up. So that is the sweetened condensed version of my visit. Oh and I am going to pump 2x a day to keep up and build my milk, just because I want to. You are all are great, thanks so much!