Re: Freakin' out for no reason...
Welcome and congratulations on the new baby! If she is gaining weight and the latch is painless, it really does sound like you are freaking out for no reason. Generally a latch is good as long as it feels good, provided that the baby is gaining weight. Yes, you might have lipstick nipples, but as long a you aren't in pain that's probably okay and probably something your baby will grow out of. As a baby grows and her mouth grows, her ability to latch on deeply and do so every time generally improves. So theree is absolutely no reason to think that there's nothing you can do at this point. Also, there's no reason to worry that your baby will be unable to sustain your supply in the future based on latching issues right now.
Even if you have some awful problem which I am not picking up on from your post, there is no reason to think that you will have to stop breastfeeding. Yes, some moms end up in situations where they have to supplement or pump in addition to nursing, but I just don't know that I get that vibe from your post!
Can you tell us more about why you suspect a problem? Aside from some lipstick nipples and fussiness, is there anything else going on?
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