Re: Lack of support...hitting a wall
Ugh, I am so sorry, mama! It sounds like you are beng sabotaged. Your DCP and your husband need to know that breastfed babies tend to eat frequent small meals rather than large, infrequent ones. And that formula will not cause a baby to sleep through the night- my formula-feeding friends will tell you that. They look just as tired as I do, in the morning!
I would lay down the law here. If you want your baby to be EBF, throw that can of formula out. Make sure your DCP and DH get educated about the feeding patterns of breastfed babies. And do not let your DCP weasel out of feeding your baby every 2 hours just because she's not accustomed to that. Your baby deserves to have his caregiver interact with him on a frequent basis, instead of expecting him to lie quietly until she thinks he's ready to eat again.
Coolest thing my big girl said recently: "How can you tell the world is moving when you are standing on it?"
Coolest thing my little girl sang recently: "I love dat one-two pupples!"