greetings from an older mother, back in 1986 doctors told husbands and wives to wait 6-8 weeks. twas verboten to do otherwise.
so, by the time week 3 had come and gone I addressed my DH needs w/o the participation of my vagina.
he appreciated the attention and 27 years later our marriage has survived the ups and downs of 5 children.
DD#1 July 1986 VB
DD#2 April 1988 c/sec
DS#3 April 1990 VBAC
DS#4 June 1993 VB
DD#5 April 2001 c/sec
BTDT scars and stretchmarks,: wrinkles and grey hair