Re: inappropriate comments?
The language your LO is using sounds totally appropriate... for a 14 month old. She doesn't know the difference between polite and impolite yet, right? I'd definitely focus on trying to teach her a different way to ask for milk. Pick a code word and teach it to her. If you can make a game out of it, she'll pick up on it faster.
Coolest thing my big girl said recently: "How can you tell the world is moving when you are standing on it?"
Coolest thing my little girl sang recently: "I love dat one-two pupples!"