First, I thought I'd nurse only a year, well that came and went. Then, I thought I wanted to be done by 2 years, but since she turned 1 I am considering lettting DD self wean. She is almost 19 months and still nursing 3-4 times a day, sometimes more. DH wants her to be weaned by the time she is 2 period. We have discussed this several times and he won't let up on it. I have argued everything from health benefits, to emotional, etc. He did let me go past 1 year....so I guess I gotta give somewhere. Problem is, he deploys this summer until next year and DD turns 2 in October (while he's away). I recently went back to work, she will be starting daycare next week, have been trying potty training too. The way I see it, she just got used to me working, (DH watches her until next week), she'll be starting daycare, DH is deploying, and potty training, then she has to wean in a few months? The kid has a lot going on right now. I am trying to do one at a time and give her a break. I may let up on potty training until she adjusts to everything else. How am I supposed to have her weaned by 2? She has cut back on one session a day already, so that's progress. (sometimes I feel she makes up for it by nursing as soon as I get home and 30 mins later ) I do want to wean, but maybe only partially. What do I tell DH?