Re: Random BLS rambles
Why is daycare spoon feeding him? Do they have some sort of rule that he has to eat X amount at mealtimes? If you want him to strictly feed himself then I don't see any reason why they should fight you on that. Maybe they just need more explicit instructions.
About the psychological damage, I am doubtful. Babies are smart and they realize that different people do things differently and that routines are different at home versus at daycare. If YOU change constantly he might get frustrated and confused.
My little man was born 12/17/2010.
Baby girl was born 4/30/2014.