Sorry it's not going any better. Have you talked to him about the party? My DD wanted no parts of it - like she wanted a party at Chuck E. Cheese - but not to wean I'm sorry I have no advice for you. I think we hit our breakthrough when I told her that my boobs hurt all.the.time - not just when she nursed. I've been meaning to ask you too - I remember you said that he had cut back a lot before the baby was born, but then started back up. How often was he nursing. My DD is nursing a couple of times a week now. Usually just the weekends. But I'm wondering if she will want to start back up when the new baby arrives.