We finally got her to take 2/3 breast milk mixed with 1/3 Earths Best organic formula.
I was a milk donor so I am familiar with the programs (donated 3,400oz with both kids). However, I know the supply is so limited that I would feel bad taking milk from a baby that "needs" it for medical reasons if mine will take the mixed formula/breastmilk. She is 9 months old and healthy and I have found an organic milk that I feel ok with so far. I wish it was only my milk but I think I have finally come to terms with the fact that she will not be on only milk for her first 2 years like my first was.
It will take time but we will get there I hope.