Re: Afraid on how to pump wean and on how to wean a baby. Help
Do you want to wean the baby at 12 months?
I would try to get rid of the pumping. Are you supplementing at every feeding? What about seeing how it goes with the first feeding of the day to nurse only, no supplement and no pumping? And do that for a few days to see how it goes? And if it seems like everything is fine - baby is happy, enough wet diapers, then do the same with the next feeding and then the next and then the next? That would spread it out over a few weeks and then you could be done with pumping and the SNS. I'm sure that's quite exhausting.
For solids, I would offer to nurse before solids for the entire first year. I would also try to get off the pumping before upping solids right now, just so you're sure he's still getting enough milk.
Lilah 10/08 nursed 25 months
Beatrix 01/11 nursed 30 months