Re: Normal to not be engorged?
If you're ever in doubt, just go back to counting diapers. As long as the baby is producing sufficient wet diapers in a 24-hour period, everything is okay. (I say wet and not poopy because at 5 months poop frequency can vary a lot- some babies will still be going several times per day, some just once a week- and that's all within the normal range.)
Coolest thing my big girl said recently: "How can you tell the world is moving when you are standing on it?"
Coolest thing my little girl sang recently: "I love dat one-two pupples!"