Re: SO DESPERATE!!! PLEASE HELP!!!
I'm sorry that you are so frustrated. I do think that you may be having some post partum depression going on as well. My baby is 10 days younger than yours and she basically does the same thing - she wakes up every 2 to 3 hours all night long. My first daughter did as well. I'm pretty tired, but I'm not feeling angry about it. With my first daughter I did have some periods of time where I was fairly angry with my husband, but what you're going through seems extreme. I'm sorry you are feeling this way. Since you don't have insurance, can you contact your local mental health department and see if they can get you in to see a doctor on a reduced fee pay scale?
Maybe I missed it, but I don't understand why you think you need to cut out dairy? And why do you think that pumping every three hours at night is going to get you more sleep than nursing every three hours?
Lilah 10/08 nursed 25 months
Beatrix 01/11 nursed 30 months