So I have thought about relactation and keep getting discouraged...been feeling guilty that I stop and start and stop again. So...after reading MORE stuff on the internet I keep coming back to the one question I have wondered all along...are the flanges of my breastpump too small? I'm not big/full up top by no means buy my nipples seem to be larger and when sucked into the flanges my nipples/areola touch the sides. I can't find a picture or video anywhere online to show me the correct sizing/fit. Thanks so much.