Personally, I agree that it is when dd and I are laying down, all stretched out, nursing ! Or really tired (as in we are extending ourselves to be doing this at this late hour)!
But seriously, I agree that giving it a name singles us out...frankly, to most of my friends and family, we are already extended nursing! I guess I think of it as sometime past age 2...because the WHO recommends nursing that long (don't they have a song about that--okay bad pun). I can't figure out why the AAP can't get on board with the WHO...maybe they are taking it one step at a time and maybe that would actually scare a lot of mom's away from nursing (like mayb ethey woudl think...well, I can't possibly be successful at it so why even try?) I think we will be lucky to make it 2 years though.