Our LO is 13 weeks and we are getting our groove back. I was not sure that my DH wanted sex (ha- what man doesn't?..he just wasn't making any passes) and then one night I made strawberry shortcake and whipped up some heavy whipping cream and I made some flirty comment about it.... and dontcha know he was all over me like white on rice...it took one comment and now I am actually the one who is initiating. And that is a huge change from when I was pregnant.
Remember there are other ways to be intimate besides intercourse. I love, love, love being a mom, but I missed romping with my DH too. Now I have the best of both worlds. I agree with the fake it til you make it attitude. I notice that my DH is much more helpful and present when his physical needs are being met. And nothing makes me happier than watching him with our son. HOT!