BFAR advice needed

I will try squishing them between my fingers next time I see them to see what happens. His poops are pretty good - one or two large bowel movements a day, and a few smaller ones. At this point I am feeling like he's not dehydrated due to how much and how often he pees...I just panicked about the crystals.

Thank you for the words of reassurance. I needed to hear all of that. I will contact my IBCLC and share everything with her and get her thoughts. And I'll file his nails ASAP!!

I just so desperately want to give my little guy everything he needs, and I want him to be healthy and happy. I hope I am doing this! Being a perfectionist probably doesn't help too much with how I'm feeling here. I have been thinking about talking to my doc about possible ppd, so I'll keep that in mind.

Thank you all for the info, ideas, and kind words!