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  • @llli*elandlanes.mommy's Avatar
    May 24th, 2015, 10:54 PM
    I had my fourth child via csection 6 days ago and started breastfeeding about an hour and20 minutes after he was born. Breastfeeding in the hospital went great-supportive staff and he started having green bowel moments on day two and on day 4 they started to turn yellow. Plenty of wet and dirty diapers. I can only nurse from my right breast due to make lumpectomy at the age of 14. This has never been a problem as I elusively pumped for my first child (had no breastfeeding help-didn't know what I was doing) and made around 48 oz per day from right breast alone. Yesterday I noticed that my breast no longer felt full. I've never had that happen this early before. Baby no longer gulps or swallows as often and is fussy at breast if I'm not doing compressions. Today he had two yellow pee diapers. He's still pooping but not at every diaper. He just had one very pale urine now. I had my husband get some fenugreek as that has helped me in the past while recovering from mastitis. The only thing I can think of us that two days ago and part of yesterday I probably dehydrated. Should I supplement until it builds? He seems very hungry and upset and he's been on the breast now for a while and is hardly sucking of swallowing. Baby sleeps with me, nurses on demand, for how long he wants to. I'm also taking lecething as I usually start to get plug ducts around 10 days post partum if I do not.
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  • @llli*perannie's Avatar
    May 24th, 2015, 05:32 AM
    Ok I was wondering if there is anything to make my milk more "nutritional"? I EBF my DD2, (third child) but she is slowly gaining weight! Gained about 6-7 oz in 12 days! I don't think it's a supply issue because my DD2 chokes on it at times!! I don't think the choking is due to forceful letdown because it happens well into a feeding!! I am trying my hardest to make it to at least 6 months because my first child I nursed 5 weeks had issues and quit!! My second was considered failure to thrive and I quit nursing at 7 weeks!!! I really want a success story but not sure how to accomplish that and keep my DD2 healthy!!! Please help!!!
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  • @llli*debbers's Avatar
    May 3rd, 2015, 03:06 PM
    I just need a safe place to vent. My daughter will be 3 in July and is not ready to wean. They say most moms don't plan to be nursing a toddler. All I can say is I wouldn't have predicted it. But I've always done what she needs. Nursing has become physically uncomfortable and sometimes emotionally draining as I'm simultaneously adjusting to the always developing strong willed little human who seemingly must do everything herself and erupts into tears unexpectedly at any moment. She also tends to be delighted at alternate moments. There's a lot of joy, but enough trying and exhausting moments to make me feel exasperated. I've walked away more times in the past month than in the previous 2Y9M combined. I've always been there for her. Every cry no matter what. Bed sharing since birth. Nursing on demand her whole life although she does not ask in publishing c, only at home.. Please tell me this will all pay off.
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  • @llli*fes's Avatar
    May 11th, 2015, 07:28 PM
    Hi all, I hoping to get some reassurance on whether I am doing this correctly. I just returned to work today. DS is 16 weeks old. I am trying to figure out the logistics of pumping at work and nursing before and after. This is what I did today- 545 am- dream fed one side 645 am- dream fed other side, then got ready for work 930 am- set alarm to pump but unable to do so until 1030, got 9 oz 1245pm- husband brought DS to me to nurse, only took one side, so pumped both sides after they left around 130 pm and got about 4 oz 330 pm- pumped and got about 3 oz 530- got home and nursed off and on until DS went to bed at 730
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  • @llli*sweet.mama83's Avatar
    May 19th, 2015, 05:05 PM
    My daughter breastfeeds on demand and is a picky eater. I was on domperidone for 6 months when she was 18months to 24 months old. She gained 2.5 lbs while on it. Prior to that she only gained 1.5 lbs from 12months to 18 months. I don't know if I should go back on domperidone, I still have milk available even after she's done nursing!(afraid of it causing side effects if using for too long) I'm just concerned since she is falling off the growth curve, was 50th percentile at birth now dwindling down to 3rd or so. Does anyone else have a "smaller" 2 year old? Please let me know your child's weight if you can!
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  • @llli*mommainafrica's Avatar
    April 30th, 2015, 04:44 AM
    Hi LLL mommas! Okay, I'm living in South Sudan and there are no LLL leaders anywhere around, I'm getting mixed information from the doctors we've talked to, and I'm not sure what else to do. My son is 9 months old and was EBF until 6 months, at which time we slowly, slowly introduced solids. He's NOT a fan of solids, so he's still pretty much only on breastmilk (though he's taken to eating egg yolks and mashed potatoes in the last week). I offer the breast every two hours all day long, but he refuses pretty much every time that he's awake, so I've taken to feeding him right as he wakes in the mornings, before naps (he still takes 3), before bed, a dream feed when I go to bed, and then 1-2 times at night. So he gets at least 7 good feedings in, sometimes a couple more if he's in the mood. He was born prematurely at 35 weeks and weighed in at 5lb. 7oz. Following some initial weight loss early on, he quickly started catching up and was gaining an average of 2oz per day for several months. By 3 months he was up to 13 pounds and by 6 months he was up to 17b. 10oz., therefore tripling his birth weight in the first 6 months. At seven months he was up to 18lb. 11oz, but since then his weight gain has not only stopped, but in the last month last month he had lost 8 ounces so now he's down to 18lb. 3oz.
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  • @llli*reena's Avatar
    May 7th, 2015, 07:41 AM
    I don't know, I think I'll do a little happy dance knowing that the 'hardest' part of nursing is behind us and we 'made it'! This has been so much more nerve wracking than when I had my first 6 years ago. I nursed my son over 3 years and he was a champion nurser from the start, even I was shocked. Our early trials this time around has, I think, put me in a perpetual state of anxiety. I'm so worried all the time. We are at 9 months now. My retired LC and LLL leader tells me, the hardest part is over, just enjoy your baby, but I don't think my nerves will cool until we hit that year mark. Thank god for baby led weaning. Thanks to that, she is great at self feeding, and I can assume she will be doing superb by the time she is 1. If only she will take a sippy more eagerly, instead of using it as a chew thing. I remember my son was easily nursing 7 times a day at 1 year old. ha. Maybe after 1, I can finally get off this domperidone, too. Sorry ladies, rant over. Did you feel any relief when your nursling turned 1 year old? :o
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  • @llli*owen.s.mommy's Avatar
    May 8th, 2015, 05:44 PM
    Hi! My second son (6 months and exclusively BF) is having lots of trouble with reflux (medicated but still bad often). We've gotten into a breastfeeding habit of switching back and forth between breasts until he is done his nursing session. It might go like this: breast #1 for 1 minute, breast #2 for 1 minute, breast #1 for another minute and back and forth like that for a total of 5-10 mins. My first baby who also had reflux and GI issues seemed to want this pattern too. Both pull away and get fussy until I switch to the other side and this seems to calm them to complete their feed. At the doctor's today, we were exploring next steps with the reflux and GI issues and she mentioned I may have a foremilk/hindmilk imbalance. I know what it is and have read lots of posts about it but my question is, could our little habit be causing issues? He does "finish" both breasts fully by the end of a session, he just doesn't fully do one at a time from start to finish because of the back and forth.... Questions: 1) Is this a bad habit or okay? 2) If bad, why is it bad? 3) If bad, how do I change the habit (he would really resist this change)? Thanks in advance!!
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  • @llli*apifera's Avatar
    May 18th, 2015, 01:47 PM
    My 23 month old breastfeeds like a six month old. It's no lie. He still nurses a lot. I pretty much never refuse and he asks at least once an hour. He has some issues with speech. He can understand pretty much everything but he can say about four words. We had him evaluated and he's now in speech therapy. In addition, he lost nearly an lb, probably due to his "selective eating". His pediatrician gave us six weeks to get him to gain, which we did. I'm not going to lie, he ate a lot of fries. He only likes to eat quinoa, broccoli, yogurt, shredded cheese, fries and toast with butter. He freaks out if you put anything new on his plate and isn't open up to trying anything new. Both his ped and, to a lesser degree the cdsa are putting pressure on me to wean. They think his frequent breastfeeding is the problem. I think that it's his main source of nutrition, I think he's stubborn enough that if I took it away it would be emotionally and nutritionally detrimental. But I want to know what I'm missing. Am I wrong?
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  • @llli*h26's Avatar
    May 22nd, 2015, 08:11 AM
    My son is 9.5 months old. At daycare, he has been having three 5 oz. bottles of breastmilk with two meals. The bottles are given close to mealtime. His caregivers at daycare would like to give him two 7-8 oz. bottles instead. Is that reasonable? OK? Can he or should he eat that much in one go? Will he get hungry between bottles? I'm also concerned about waste because they are required to dispose of any milk in his bottle that he doesn't finish.
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  • @llli*dormir41's Avatar
    May 2nd, 2015, 04:31 PM
    Hi everyone! I am hoping for a bit of support and a few ideas. I returned to work on April 6th and have been able to pump anywhere between 3 and 5 times per day at work. I am not getting more than 6-8 oz total per day, though, and baby eats anywhere between 8-14 oz while I'm away (I leave at 6 am, return home at 4:30 pm, sometimes later but this is rare). I have more success time wise at work pumping in the mornings and so I sometimes pump every hour until I get busy and can't--just to keep the frequency. Afternoons are more difficult, but I'm trying to not go longer than 3 hours even though that has not been possible a few times. My freezer cache is gone so hubs is supplementing with formula. Not really desired, but what seems to be what is needed presently. She gets maybe 2-6 oz, sometimes more, formula total while I'm at work. I nurse her as soon as I get home and we co-sleep so I can't be totally sure but think I'm nursing her 4-5 times during the night and nurse her just before I leave in the morning. I'm okay with that schedule and for the most part I seem to be getting enough sleep to function although I of course would love more. Baby stats: 15 weeks old. 8 lbs 11 oz at last appointment (11 weeks), birth weight 5 lbs 15 oz, lowest weight 5 lbs 7 oz, gain is slow but somewhat steady. On our home scale she is over 10 lbs now (I'm not going to give a number since I haven't weighed her naked recently so I don't have anything accurate). I do weighted...
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  • @llli*bcompton's Avatar
    May 15th, 2015, 01:28 PM
    Hello! I'm a FTM that really wants to keep bf until 1.5 years at least. I have no supply issue and had been eating lactation cookies regularly to help. About 2 weeks ago, we got diagnosed with thrush and the baby with a yeast infection. She was around 6 weeks old. I also had thrush on my nipples. We used nystatin and I got diflucan. The yeast infection is gone and so is the thrush. She was a great feeder and was feeding every 2 hours for 15-16 minutes like clockwork. She was gaining weight quickly and pooping/peeing fine. The only problem we had was that she seemed to always have gas and grunt/strain a lot. (especially at night she was super loud and would pull her legs to her chest and grunt a lot) We got her on gripe water and Gerber soothe drops. At around 6-7 weeks, she decreased her input of expressed milk from bottle from 65 ml-85 ml to 30-40 ml. I figured she just preferred the breast. Then she started shortening her bf times from 15 minutes to 5-7 minutes. She then started feeding from my breast for like a minute, pulling away, and screaming. Then frantically looking for my nipple even though it was right in front of her (I guided it to her) and rooting as if it wasn't there. Then trying to feed again, pulling away, and screaming...over and over. She would do this with the bottle sometimes too. At first this only happened in the evenings, but it started to happen at anytime. I was worried that she wasn't getting enough to eat. She was still gaining weight and...
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  • @llli*m11612's Avatar
    April 29th, 2015, 01:28 PM
    My ds is 8 weeks old now and I'm more confused than ever. I have already seen an lc, my pediatrician and a lll leader/group. No one seems to be able to help me pinpoint the problem if there is one. I am mostly concerned about the screaming and coughing. I also would love to know if the green and mucosy poops are a concern or just within normal. Baby 1- Sometimes fussy in evening and sometimes SCREAMING as if in pain in the evening (otherwise generally happy) 2- Coughing at breast at different times and away from breast seemingly when spitting up and swallowing back down (spits up without swallowing rarely) 3- Green poops occasionally, mucosy poops occasionally (no visible blood) Very gassy sometimes uncomfortable with it, but i:'m thinking it's within normal infant range. 4- Sometimes fussy at breast, choking, gagging and bobbing. 5- Mild (?) lip tie, I question posterior tongue tie 6- Horrible skin. Dry spots, cradle cap, baby acne on face and trunk, prickly heat rash looking area on chin but no diaper rash.
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  • @llli*amcmanus17's Avatar
    May 14th, 2015, 10:21 PM
    Until the last couple of days my little guy has always finished on one breast. Today however after suckling for much longer than normal he came off the breast very frustrated so I switched sides. He went after it like he was starving.. Even after finishing the 2nd he seemed frustrated, or not as satisfied as normal. I'm guessing it is because he has been inconsistent with his feedings lately but my breasts feel empty even when we start a feeding, so I want to make sure he gets satisfied. Is there a way to know when they've "finished" a side?
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  • @llli*jewell0405's Avatar
    May 21st, 2015, 10:24 PM
    Hello!! I'm new to this site and a first time mom...my precious little boy is 3 weeks old. When I gave birth, my LC told me to pump every time after I nursed him because I'm wanting to start building a supply for him when I return to work 6 weeks from now. So I have been doing that until this past week when I've discovered (self-diagnosed) that I had an issue with oversupply: (1) breast constantly full, (2) sometimes milk would spray as I'm trying to get him to latch, (3) trying to get him to latch was a battle- he would make these "mean" looking faces and shake his head off the breast and/or push against me, (4) he would sometimes gulp, choke, sputter, or cough during feedings at breast, (5) mom having extremely sore nipples constantly, (6) feedings may be short, lasting only 5 or 10 minutes total, (7) he would burp or pass (screaming painful) gas frequently between feedings, tending to spit up a lot, and (8) he had watery explosive stools. So based on all those symptoms, and from what I've read about oversupply (or Hyperlactation or any other term it's referred to as)- I kinda self-diagnosed myself with this issue. Please by all means correct me if I'm wrong. But for 3/4 days I've been trying to correct this issue- for two days I did the block feeding and during the entire correction phase I pumped 2 minutes the beast that I knew he was going to feed from just to remove the foremilk. And I still pump once or twice a day so I can continue to build my milk supply...
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  • @llli*marjon.carlo-arce's Avatar
    May 5th, 2015, 01:57 PM
    I am not sure what to do and I am feeling very discouraged and upset. I recently went back to work and can only pump before work, at my lunch and when I get home. Before I went back to work I was pumping 4oz at a time, which satisfied my baby. However since returning to work, my supply evaporated completely. I seem to barely get out a tablespoon. I started drinking about a gallon of water a day, taking fenugreek, drinking mothers milk tea and made lactation cookies. Nothing seems to help and I think the stress from all of this is making it worse. My baby is now refusing to nurse when I am home, and I think it's due to the low supply. What can I do? Should I start pumping every hour when I am home and on the weekends? I am not sure if this will help, since I won't be able to pump as often at work. Please help.
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  • @llli*reena's Avatar
    May 2nd, 2015, 11:15 AM
    Hi all, about 5 days ago my 9 month old caught a tummy bug from her kindergartener brother. She threw up for about a day and a half. I believe the bug was passed on to me, I am no throwing up however. I feel woozy and have a bit of diarrhea. I feel like my supply is low today. Normal? She is not fussing at the breast, but letdowns seem a little sluggish and my breasts feel very 'squishy'. She is peeing, although I feel like the diapers could be wetter. Any advice for me? I am nursing as much as she will take and taking sips of water all day long.
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  • @llli*rosesmum's Avatar
    May 16th, 2015, 01:15 PM
    My daughter, 9.5 months old, has just had her first tooth start to come in. The peditrician said that before bed after I nurse her to wipe the tooth off with a damp wash cloth. That's fine, but what about after a middle of the night feeding? She tends to wake at 1 or 2am and I nurse her back to sleep. Last night I tried wiping the tooth at 1am, but ended up giving up after she was getting upset. What do you suggest I do?
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  • @llli*pteroglossus's Avatar
    May 19th, 2015, 09:26 PM
    Hi everyone, My daughter is 3.5 and nurses morning, nap and bedtime. Our big milestone recently has been getting her to fall asleep without a boob in her mouth (hurray!) but it only works at night, she won't do it for naps. I can't really see what the next step could be, she's so attached to all three of these nursing sessions (and won't nap unless I let her nurse right to sleep). Last night I mentioned that one day my boobs won't have any more milk and she won't be able to nurse. She started crying, and then said she would be angry at me for not making milk for her. We talk about lots of big things, like birth, death, getting old…but I feel like every time I bring up weaning she is in total denial. She says things like she's going to be nursing when she's twenty, and that she doesn't want me to ever sleep in another room because she wants to nurse. How did you talk to your kids to prepare them for weaning? I feel like if I don't push her along a little it is just not going to happen on its own (in a reasonable time frame).
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  • @llli*sacmd's Avatar
    May 4th, 2015, 01:38 PM
    Hi, I'm wondering if anyone can share any experiences that are similar to mine, and got better. My 4.5 month old has always been a very 'needy' baby in terms of touch. Until 6 weeks she literally would not be put down at all without screaming so we co-slept for sanity. Napping was in my arms, carrier, etc. Then, between 6 weeks and 3.5 months, things improved a little and we were able to lay her down in her crib for naps (short naps, never more than an hour) and at the beginning of the night at 7 pm, when she would sleep from 4-6 hours. She always napped better being carried or cuddled, but at least she would tolerate an hour while I threw together dinner, paid bills, etc. I tried to nap with her when I could. For the past month, she has hit the '4 month fussies', and I'm at work 3 days/week, and it is like having a newborn again! Doesn't want to be put down much at all, and now will nap only 20 minutes alone during the day, and will basically refuse to sleep in her crib at the beginning of the night unless she's totally exhausted--but then will wake up 40 minutes later and cry until we take her to bed. At which point she will sleep, but rouses much more unless our arms are around her or over her. Like, I have to physically touch her for her to settle (this is hard because she is restless, thrashing about and flinging her arms around. Not very conducive for my own rest at night). She is very clingy!! Has anyone gone through this stage and if so, when did your baby...
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  • @llli*jazmanian's Avatar
    May 6th, 2015, 08:37 AM
    Hi! Last night my baby slept 8 hours straight. I woke up 6 hours into her sleep and expressed some milk on the right side because it was soo full and uncomfortable. I woke up 2 hours later to feed her, and my breast is sore. Doesnt affect feeding. I tried getting her to empty the breast as much as possible, i massaged it before & while she fed. Its been 4 hours since then and my breast is still sore. It feels like its bruised, all along the area youd be touching if you cupped it. I called the doctor but im waiting on a call back. Any ideas?
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  • @llli*midnightsangel's Avatar
    May 5th, 2015, 10:11 PM
    My 4 month old has recently "woken up" in terms of reaching for things and generally being more interested in the world. While this is precious when he grabs a toy and squeezes tight, he has been also grabbing my best in his fists and digging in. It hurts so bad even with his nails trimmed short. I don't want to scare him with my reactions but sometimes I can't help myself from snatched his hand off. I don't make a noise or say no or anything but dear god it hurts. Any advice on how to deal or to get him to stop? I know he's young and I know it's not on purpose. It just hurts :(
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  • @llli*skyanne's Avatar
    May 8th, 2015, 10:35 PM
    Hi Ladies. I'm so upset right now, I don't know if I want to cry or scream. DD's 4 month check up was today. We've been coming in for weekly weight checks for the past two months. The first thing the pediatrician said to me today was "Her weight gain is not good. She's dropped off the charts. Would you be open to trying formula?" I explained that if we supplemented I would see it as a temporary thing, that I would work with a LC to fix whatever the problem is with nursing. She said she admired my dedication, and that DDs low weight gain, reflux like symptoms, eczema, and general fussiness made her think she had a milk protein allergy. I avoided dairy except for the occasional bit of cheese when she was a new newborn, and I didn't see any symptoms when I added it back in. The pediatrician then told me that some kids are so sensitive to milk protein that they react to the small amounts that are in meats, processed foods, and wheat. I nearly fell out in the floor. My mom's side of the family has a very strong history of milk allergy, but I never knew it could be that bad. She referred us to a pediatric GI group, we should hear from them by the end of the week. She didn't want to put me on a bunch of big dietary restrictions like that without further conformation. I literally cant even right now. We are currently having similar issues with DS, and will get a GI referral for him after we complete a month long food log. I feel horrible. I keep apologizing to my husband. He...
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  • @llli*midnightsangel's Avatar
    May 18th, 2015, 11:19 AM
    My son is four and a half months now. I breast feed on demand and that ends up being every hour or two during the day and I couldn't tell you at night because we Co sleep and I don't wake up for his latches. I would guess he feeds 3 times between 11pm and 7am. Anyway even when my breasts feel empty after a feeding I leak milk. I rarely get engorged. It only happens at night of he skips a meal every once in a while and even then I will hand express into a towel to comfort and then encourage a dream feed so he doesn't choke on the flow. Is there any way I can stop the leaking? I use breast pads but they are annoying and if I skip them my shirt is soaked after a few hours. It even happens when I'm not letting down. Any tips would be appreciated. Thanks!
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  • @llli*babymm's Avatar
    May 7th, 2015, 12:25 PM
    Is this normal? She used to sleep a 5 hour stretch and then wake up every 2 hours until we got up in the morning but for the past couple weeks she's been waking up to eat every 2 hours and sometimes every hour. I'm tired!
    5 replies | 479 view(s)
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