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  • @llli*tclynx's Avatar
    Today, 01:08 AM
    Sometimes a sick or teething baby will refuse to nurse because it hurts or is uncomfortable. As for managing to eat when baby is so fussy, putting baby in a wrap or carrier so you can get your hands free to get some food helps. I also find that wearing the baby tends to make him fall to sleep so that might make it easier to then take him out of the wrap and then feed him while he is sleepy. My LO also gets really fussy when my supply is low or slow to let down and other times he just seems to be rejecting the location I'm trying to nurse in (like sometimes he decides he doesn't want to nurse on the couch and he latches on as soon as I stand up and walk away from the couch with him. Or he is not willing to latch on to one breast but he will when I switch him to the other or switch to another position like football or with him sitting straddling my leg instead of cradle.
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  • @llli*delecto's Avatar
    Yesterday, 10:54 PM
    Thanks a bunch! I'm going pick up some shells tomorrow then switch back to lanolin. Before, even with lanolin, I'd end up sticking to the disposable nursing pads. No fun at all. Would you also suggest the saline dips in addition to lanolin? Just curious...
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  • @llli*tclynx's Avatar
    Yesterday, 09:52 PM
    I actually made them originally to put in the little mesh feeder bags so that he could chew/suck on them because of teething he likes them sometimes but not always. I expect you could still give him a dollop of oatmeal or yogurt to handle himself, it would just be very messy and you couldn't expect him to actually ingest very much of it. The difference between BLS and actually Supplementing breast milk intake with solid foods I guess.
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  • @llli*mommal's Avatar
    Yesterday, 07:19 PM
    Smile, nod, and go on doing exactly what pleases you and your baby most. I nursed my kids for 3 years apiece, and never regretted one moment of it! In fact, you couldn't have paid me enough to wean at a year, or even 18 months. By age 2 maybe someone could have bribed me to wean- but it wouldn't have come cheap! Nursing was my mommy superpower. It soothed my kids when they were hurt. Got them to sleep when nothing else was working. Fed and comforted them when they were sick and couldn't eat anything else. Distracted them from tantrums. Kept them quiet when I was trying to have an adult conversation. Helped them deal with pressure changes when we went on planes. And when my older daughter was 3 and almost completely weaned, nursing stopped her tears and screams after she accidentally ate some red pepper flakes at our local Korean restaurant!
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  • @llli*tracym's Avatar
    Yesterday, 07:08 PM
    First I would like to say that I have already spoke to a lactation consultant but I'm looking for suggestions on how to keep my supply up when I can't put my baby down. He has been EBF since birth with good latch and great weight gain. This past couple of weeks he has been fussy at the breast and he pulls off frequently and I'll relatch him. Eventually I have a let down and he's happy. Today was a very challenging day for me he went on a strike after his 2am feeding and I couldn't even relatch him until 10am! The moment he gets into the cradle position he loses it! Inconsolable. Finally heard from lactation and she suggested that I get skin to skin in a moby wrap. The only way I have been able to latch him is once he passes out, so dream feed essentially. I barely had time today to eat let alone pump because he has been so fussy. Which is not like him. He is very easy going so today scared me. And I can't put him down to pump because his cries get to me. I need to hold him and calm him. I tried to pump while bounced him with my foot in his bouncer but that was torture. He kept putting his fists in his mouth and I stoped pumping a couple of times to latch with no success. ANYWAYS.....What can I do to keep my supply up if he wont latch and is screaming his head off?
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  • @llli*mommal's Avatar
    Yesterday, 07:02 PM
    I personally would choose formula over any other milk. It's much closer in composition to human milk than any other alternative- unless you happen to have access to gorilla milk!
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  • @llli*alexbell915's Avatar
    Yesterday, 06:19 PM
    I'm dairy free as well due to absorption issues. Also gluten free. We eat and use a lot of almond product around here. Almond milk, almond flour, etc. I started taking a calcium supplement. It doesn't necessarily have to be lactose free unless u have a confirmed lactose allergy. I stay away from soy because it's often heavily processed and the largest GMO culprit. Soy also causes a lot of allergies and can disrupt female hormones. I do miss yogurt and cheese, but it's not so bad and definitely worth my little guy flourishing.
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  • @llli*rmawhorter's Avatar
    Yesterday, 05:46 PM
    Ahhh, thanks. :) I agree with you that something is up. I think that I will see who I can find to help. I was also thinking of buying the book that you mentioned. Do you think that it could be helpful? I can't believe how much more he's been willing to take now that I've switched to the syringe. It makes me feel a little sad that I didn't just give him a bigger nipple on a bottle. I'm sure that the colostrum that he's getting compensates for what he's been missing out on though. I just noticed that you had asked earlier how much he was taking in in a feed. Here's what his normal day looked like: 120ml (4oz), 150ml (5oz), 150ml, 180ml (6oz), 120-150ml. I'm not scheduling him down to 5 per day. He basically trained himself to sleep through the night. When he was waking in the night he would only take about 60ml (2oz). Today though he's taken 150ml, 180ml and 240ml (8oz)! He's never taken 240 before. I hope we can turn a bend here.
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  • @llli*anaduralia's Avatar
    Yesterday, 05:35 PM
    You keep it up! I think it's awesome that you kept on going. I have had similar "advice" as you got. I have 4 kids and have nursed 20 months or longer for all of them. With my first, I weaned at 20 months because I was half way through my second's pregnancy and was being pressured by family and friends to stop (though I regret it a little now - I should have gone for tandem nursing). With my second, I felt bad to wean (at 23 months), but I had twins on the way and I just thought it would be *impossible* to nurse 3. For the twins, the little girl stopped nursing on her own just before her second birthday. My guess is that she didn't want to do tandem nursing anymore and would have continued on if I had offered nursing by herself (didn't realize it at the time, oh well, hind sight is great). Her twin brother is still nursing at 26 months and still really interested in it. I really love nursing and after hearing that the world average on the amount of time a child is nursed is 4.5 years, I feel I am justified in continuing. It is just our weird culture that does not accept it anymore.
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  • @llli*lilbunny01's Avatar
    Yesterday, 05:17 PM
    The past 3 weeks I think I've been having plugged duct on the right side (feels sore and there is a lump there) every couple of days. I've tried pumping longer, harder, warm compresses, and massaging it but it doesn't really go away unless I feed baby first on that side. Anyone have suggestions on how to prevent the plug duct? I think it may be affecting my supply bc lately I've been getting only 1.5 oz on the right side. I pump at 6:30 am (~8 oz), 9 am (4 oz), noon (4 oz), 3 pm (4 oz). BF when i get home from work at 6 pm. Pump again at 11 pm (4 oz) before bed. Baby is 5.5 months.
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  • @llli*lllmeg's Avatar
    Yesterday, 05:11 PM
    I usually suggest to discontinue use of anything that is not working or possibly making things worse. While of course I have heard of them, I am not familiar with this product or what studies have been done on them, how long they should be used, etc. Years ago there was a study on purified lanolin that (iirc) showed it helped speed healing of injured nipples via moist wound healing. It must be applied regularly, after every nursing session. Lanolin in rare cases will irritate some mothers, and if a mother has thrush, it is not a good idea to use lanolin. Otherwise that is a pretty tried and true product. APNO is a nipple cream that requires a prescription and has to be compounded, Some mothers swear by it, other have found it unhelpful and again in rare cases, irritating. Breastmilk itself is healing when left on the nipples in many cases. Overall, nipples injured due to poor latch should continue to heal unless they are being reinjured. So if your healing has stopped, I would wonder if latch still needs adjusting. This would not be uncommon.
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  • @llli*pteroglossus's Avatar
    Yesterday, 04:19 PM
    My DD didn't have any drinks other than breastmilk until she was about 15 or 16 mo. Then she started having some water. She didn't like cow's milk until about 2 yo but now (2.5) she loves it. However, her main drinks are still water and breastmilk.
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  • @llli*mrsphillips's Avatar
    Yesterday, 03:43 PM
    Thanks ladies!! My little guy is 4 weeks old. We had latch issues in the beginning but he seems to be doing fine. Sometimes it takes 5 or so minutes. Thanks for the suggestions....I've been trying to breastfeed without the pillow at home as a test....not so comfy but I got him on.....eventually.
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  • @llli*krystine's Avatar
    Yesterday, 01:09 PM
    I gave DD cow's milk after 2 yrs because she nursed so often. We eat a lot of cheese in our house, though and I gave her water to drink in addition to nursing.
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  • @llli*krystine's Avatar
    Yesterday, 01:08 PM
    Dr Jack Newman says it's fine to give babies milk from a different species if they are on a variety of solids. At 10.5 mos, I'd feel comfortable giving a couple oz of goat's milk. I'm not a fan of formula at all, especially after 6 mos, but I'm not a doctor either.
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  • @llli*delecto's Avatar
    Yesterday, 12:55 PM
    Hi there, My DD is now 11 days old and I've been ebf. We had a shallow latch for the first several days; I met with a LC who helped me get the right positioning, but the damage was done. My nipples were (are) sore and cracked. She suggested I use the Ameda ComfortGel Hydrogel Pads. I've used them since Wednesday (it's now Monday). There has been some progress, and it's no longer as painful to nurse. However, the healing has seemed to plateaued. The nipples are still pretty raw but due to the moist environment, don't scab over like they did. So my question for you ladies is - how should I be using these pads? I've worn them all day every day (obviously not when nursing). I wash them each time in water, but basically put them right back on when DD is done. Letting my nipples be in the air has not really worked - it's a little painful, and they tend to get bumped or brushed by DD, which then really hurts. Does it work best to wear them all day? Should i be taking breaks from them? How long should I expect to need to wear them (I do have another pack ready to go since these are almost at the end of their life)? Also: In the last couple of days, there has been a bit of a burning sensation in my breasts. It's both on the ends of my nipples, and somewhat internally as well. Worse at night. My breasts are no longer engorged or anything (rather "empty" feeling) so I'm wondering if it's refill pain? Or... thrush? I sure hope not! Thanks in advance for your advice!
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  • @llli*zaynethepain's Avatar
    Yesterday, 12:48 PM
    Here are the resources I'm looking at for starting my son on solids in a few months. http://nourishingourchildren.wordpress.com/2014/06/22/resources-for-babys-first-solid-foods/
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  • @llli*ruchiccio's Avatar
    Yesterday, 12:22 PM
    I cross my legs and use that extra height as the "pillow". At home I always use a pillow so I am also attached to the idea of having my baby raised up while nursing.
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  • @llli*ruchiccio's Avatar
    Yesterday, 12:08 PM
    You keep it up then! Ignore everyone else's "advice." Secretly, I think they are jealous of your accomplishment.
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  • @llli*ruchiccio's Avatar
    Yesterday, 11:58 AM
    Like Meg said, it doesn't appear to me that your baby needs to dreamfeed. It's something that I had to do many times because my baby was so distracted by day that he needed good solid meals at night and since I didn't want to do it while I was asleep, I'd dreamfeed my baby before I went to bed. Basically I'd just pick him up while he's sleeping and if he starts to fidget, I'd know he was "awake" enough to eat - as in, not in a deeeeep sleep. Then I'd just bring him to breast and he'd suck. If he'd barely stir and bringing him to the breast did not cause him to open his mouth to suck, I put him back down and tried after my shower when he'd cycle to a lower sleep level.
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  • @llli*lllmeg's Avatar
    Yesterday, 11:08 AM
    You may find baby is more interested in nursing more at night once you are back at work. Until then, your baby's nighttime "schedule" seems fine to me, there are no super long stretches of not nursing, and baby is waking and you are offering when baby wakes. That may not be dream feeding, as baby is not "feeding" But it still 'counts,' IMO, as you cannot exactly force a child to nurse. I am not sure there is a hard and fast definition of dream feeding. I guess it basically means baby nursing at any time baby is not fully awake. Assuming baby is nursing frequently the rest of the day and weight gain is normal, I see no need to worry about this. However it never hurts to offer, so you can keep offering, and if baby is interested, baby will nurse. And yes, you can also offer when she is not stirring if you like-for example, you can offer to nurse when you are going to bed. If baby gets a pacifier or is swaddled at night, that can in some cases lead to less frequent nursing. If bedsharing is something you would consider, that may lead to more frequent nursing.
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  • @llli*lllmeg's Avatar
    Yesterday, 10:57 AM
    Personally, I have gotten an itchy red rash on my breasts (not nipples or areola) at some point while nursing every baby. Heat and sweat makes it worse and "airing out" always helps. So it appears to be related to a heat rash, but it is not something I ever experience when NOT nursing.
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  • @llli*lllmeg's Avatar
    Yesterday, 10:31 AM
    Some IBCLCs will use Skype for appointments. I think you have to assume there is SOME intake issue. I hate using "shoulds" as of course there are always exceptions. But, IMO, it really *should* not take so long for a child this age to eat. It indicates something is up. If this were me, I would contact Catherine Watson Genna in NYC and ask if there were any way she could help or if she had any suggestions of someone who might. Why her? Because she literally wrote the book on supporting sucking skills in breastfed infants, and I guess one of her suggestions helped you already. I would also suggest contacting Jack Newman's Breastfeeding Clinic (they are in Canada at least) and see if THEY have any ideas for getting you help. You have a unique and interesting situation, and you are doing something so incredible and loving by nursing your adoptive child while pregnant, it just seems to me the universe should be helping you here.
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  • @llli*ngs215's Avatar
    Yesterday, 09:48 AM
    DD is just shy of 3 months. She usually eats around 7-8 PM, around 12-1, and around 6-7 AM. She doesn't always sleep through those long stretches, but if she wakes up during those times, she usually falls asleep as soon as I pick her up, before I can get her from bassinet to rocking chair. If I get her to the rocking chair, she pushes the nipple away with her fist so that she can snuggle against the breast and fall asleep. I see dream feeding suggested on here all the time. I would like to do it, especially since I am going back to work soon. Does trying to feed her when she wants to go to sleep like above count as dream feeding? Or should I be offering when she is not even stirring yet? Or is my DD just apparently not interested in dream feeding? Thanks.
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  • @llli*elisabet's Avatar
    Yesterday, 09:06 AM
    When a child is 2years or older I think that what ever breastmilk he gets is enough. Just as long he is getting 1000mg calcium/day and enough fats. He can get calcium from leafy greens, sesame seeds, almonds (best non-dairy) and sardines (and more). Also too much protein in his diet can cause calcium to bee realised from his bones and returned from his body with urine. Im studying nutrition and from what I have learnt this is my best guess. The dietician is probably thinking that 16oz of almond milk gets him near his recommendations of calcium but I also think its wrong to say that breastmilk is just bonus. I would be aware off the amount of vitamin-D he is getting, cause when not enough he will not absorb the calcium from his diet. :)
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  • @llli*elisabet's Avatar
    Yesterday, 08:54 AM
    Hi everyone :) My 19m old girl nurses 2-5x a day and maybe 3x per night. I have been pressured to wean since she was 12m (even sooner) by people/nurses here and there but nothing dramatic. I have tried to night wean several times but we would always go in the same path again few days/weeks later. I have also tried to reduce the amount of feedings a few times but again my little one increases the nursing. This is all done cause I think I need to follow someone elseĀ“s advise! Today I know that I want to keep on breastfeeding until at least she is 2years. And I enjoy the nursing during the day :ita Maybe I will night wean (slowly) in the nearest future, but not sure. Im so proud of my self that we kept on despite everything. The first few weeks of her life were hard and breastfeeding was really tough cause she was born prematurely and she got RS-virus and a lung infection. But we made it and sometimes I wonder how could I let others bring me down. :confused: Have someone here stopped their weaning progress and kept on going? I would love to hear some stories :D
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