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  • @llli*happychimomma's Avatar
    Yesterday, 11:17 PM
    Hi! Thanks for getting back to me. Weight gain has been slow: born at 6#6oz and this week he was 8#6oz -- he will be two months old on Thursday. The IBCLC we were working with didn't catch his lip tie but an IBCLC at a LLL meeting did and that was revised 10 days ago. Feedings were better after that but not significantly better. What seemed to make the most difference was the increased milk after the domperidone started kicking in. My breasts would feel full--not rock hard, just heavy with milk - and my LO was much more aggressive at the breast and seemed satiated. Then, Sunday, the milk just seemed to go away. They were full for the morning and afternoon feedings and then in the evening, they didn't feel full and when I went to pump, I got almost nothing (less than an ounce) whereas the day before I was getting any 1½ to 2½ ounces per pump without much effort (not needing to do much breast massage or compressions during pumping). The only thing that was different was that on Saturday, I had the prescription refilled but otherwise, activity level, water intake, food intake, stress, etc., was the same. It was such a quick change, it just seemed so odd to me! I called the pharmacy and they gave me a new set of pills on the off chance something was wrong with that set but that was just today so I don't know if that was the issue yet. I'm not sure if this answers all your questions but any help or advice would be great!
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  • @llli*ellie.vas's Avatar
    Yesterday, 10:17 PM
    I have been looking around the Internet to see what's the matter with my daughter because I was told about thrush before I gave birth. My daughter had a white tongue so I assumed "this could be thrush" but then I read that milk can leave residue on the tongue like thrush but if it cleans off its milk. I told my doctor who said it was normal and searched her mouth for white spots. Safe to say he sent me home even though she had a rash that wouldn't clear up ( also a symptom of thrush). So then I went and saw ANOTHER doctor, who also did the same thing and said the same thing. Nothing. By this I was calm. I noticed that she seemed to be kicking in what looks like pain when she sucks. So again being another symptom I told my doctor yet again! And nothing....so i left frustrated. I know I was being parinoid but a week after that appointment I noticed her top and bottom lips were turning white on the inside. A SURE SIGN. So I sent pictures to my doctors and told them of they though I should come in for it. Being that I have an appointment for her in a week I thought I could wait but she's been spitting up almost Everytime I feed her. I also noticed today a white spot inside her cheek, and her diaper rash is worse! I don't know what to do or anything and I'm feeling depressed because my husband thinks I'm "playing doctor" and makes me feel like **** for even thinking something is wrong. But I'm with her all day and I feel like I notice if something appears where it shouldn't...
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  • @llli*mommal's Avatar
    Yesterday, 08:12 PM
    :hug So much of what is written about infant sleep is toxic, and insidious. It's full of loaded language about how "dependent" a baby can become on nursing, and nudges about how you can foster greater "sleep independence" and "self-soothing"- and of course we adults all have a gut response that dependency is bad and that independence and self-reliance are good. It starts from the assumption that a "good" night's sleep is the same for all people- that ideally, everyone sleeps 8 hours in their own bed, by themselves, never stirring to attend anyone's needs but their own. I think you just have to discard everything that is common knowledge about sleep and go with your gut. What would make you happy? What are your goals? It doesn't matter if they don't match the conventional ideal, as long as you're getting the rest you need.
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  • @llli*saturn.ring's Avatar
    Yesterday, 08:01 PM
    I have recently been having sleep issues. I've been trying to read up on how I can move things along and help my daughter sleep better, largely because it has serious effects on my mood. The things I'm reading make me feel like I've done something bad by nursing my baby to sleep. It doesn't say so explicitly, but phrases like "sleep association", or the idea that baby is using my breast as a pacifier, are making me feel strangely disassociated from nursing. I have read all the "good" literature (like the No Cry Sleep Solution and James McKenna's stuff) that affirms the lovely and beautiful thing nursing is, for comfort or not. But I can't help but feel bad. Tonight when I nursed my baby to sleep I felt resentful and almost dirty, like I was hurting her by letting her nurse this way. I know this is totally not true, and I have loved nursing so much, especially as she gets older. I guess I'm just having a low moment. Mostly I just needed to write this out so I could see it in black and white and realize how much I don't believe it.
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  • @llli*mommal's Avatar
    Yesterday, 07:44 PM
    If you are so concerned about lead, why not get yourself tested? That way you know whether or not your milk is likely to be a significant source of lead. Most lead exposure is environmental. In the US, anyone who lives in an older house is likely to come in contact with lead because lead paint wasn't phased out until the 1970s. People who live in cities also tend to receive elevated lead exposure from soils and from leaded gasoline, which wasn't phased out until the 1980s. So if you're concerned about where your child's lead exposure is coming from, I would look to her environment first.
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  • @llli*mommal's Avatar
    Yesterday, 07:38 PM
    The red, flaky patches aren't painful now, but that could change. This really does sound like early thrush, and I personally would be very vigilant about it. If it spreads, if cracks develop, if you start feeling pain- then I would want to treat it as thrush, and make sure the babies are both treated as well so that you don't pass things back and forth. If it's not thrush, well, it could be bacterial infection, an allergic reaction to something you are coming in contact with, chafing from the babies' latch, or perhaps eczema. I think this is a wait and see situation!
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  • @llli*mommal's Avatar
    Yesterday, 07:32 PM
    I've never heard of anything like this being associated with weaning. If you really feel like it is a problem, I think I would see the doctor. Make sure you get a test for thyroid function, since thyroid disfunction is really common in postpartum, and mental status changes are one of the many things an off thyroid can cause.
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  • @llli*apple963's Avatar
    Yesterday, 06:29 PM
    I do notice some blanching but no increased pain with it. I read about vasospasms and it seemed there was an increase in pain wihen one happened. I just seem to have the same level of tenderness all the time. No obvious signs of yeast either. Wouldn't yeast at least show in baby after 7 months? I'm totally puzzled.
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  • @llli*skyanne's Avatar
    Yesterday, 05:54 PM
    That's good to know. :) I tried to wake her up to feed before I went to the store today so I pinched my nipple a few times to draw some milk out and convince her to eat and suddenly I started gushing everywhere! I'm not sure how I didn't notice it before. This whole time I thought I had another reflux baby, now I'm thinking this might be the whole problem. :)
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  • @llli*mamawin's Avatar
    Yesterday, 03:34 PM
    YES!! Juice is also a pet peeve of mine. Both DH and his parents still believe it's really healthy and are always offering it to my DS who of course says yes. Who wouldn't want a big glass of sugar water. It's frustrating.
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  • @llli*addy.smommy10's Avatar
    Yesterday, 03:14 PM
    Thank you for all your advice and time. I really greatly appreciate everything.
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  • @llli*bsua65's Avatar
    Yesterday, 03:09 PM
    So glad the panic is over and it's a good reminder about the need for proper scales! :)
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  • @llli*bsua65's Avatar
    Yesterday, 02:57 PM
    I'm not sure that lead would pass through breastmilk... It's given me something to research! Are her lead issues a cause for concern? As for whether to wean I think only you know that, but if you do decide to wean it's best to do it gradually and not stop abruptly for many reasons!
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  • @llli*atvtk's Avatar
    Yesterday, 02:48 PM
    Thank you so much for your reply, I really appreciated it. I know I need to calm down as I'm weary of upsetting my baby. My partner has been very supportive with everything which has been a help. It's just so upsetting to see her pull off and cry whenever I try to feed her. other than the feeding issues, I feel absolutely fine. Not on any hormonal contraception so that's not the issue. I will keep going and see how things go on weigh day. Thank you.
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  • @llli*bsua65's Avatar
    Yesterday, 02:42 PM
    If your toddler is pretty good at understanding books, there are a couple along the lines of what the PP said called 'nursies when the sun shines'
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  • @llli*bsua65's Avatar
    Yesterday, 02:38 PM
    Green poop is normal and the foremilk/hindmilk issue is usually way over exaggerated. A baby can thrive on 'foremilk' alone. (Technically speaking it's all milk and there is no such thing as fore and hind milk). Pumping nothing after a baby has fed doesn't mean anything either. Your body naturally produces enough, it doesn't tend to make enough for baby and then some for a pump unless you tell it to via pumping. Please don't take this the wrong way but I think you need to try and take a big breathe and try to calm down. Baby will pick up on you stressing and that won't help. It's normal for babies to feed in under 5 minutes at this age and it's normal for weight gain to slow. If baby is not hungry baby will refuse the breast, just don't sweat it and offer again a bit later :) mIf baby is regularly going long stretches without latching (during the day) like more than 4 hours try some of Kellymom ' s back to breast ideas on her website. Are you on any one of hormonal contraception that could be affecting your supply?
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  • @llli*bsua65's Avatar
    Yesterday, 02:16 PM
    Do they look ok? Any whiteness or blanching or redness? It could be vasospasm in which case warmth will help. With vasospasm you tend to notice the nipples are white after a feed or whenever you get cold. Equally could it be thrush?
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  • @llli*jensmith's Avatar
    Yesterday, 02:11 PM
    Hello. I gradually weaned my 14 month old son about a month ago. Every since, I am having some memory loss issues, specifically word retrieval. Could this be related to weaning? Something hormonal? Please tell me it's temporary; I feel so stupid having conversations and not being able to find the words!!
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  • @llli*bsua65's Avatar
    Yesterday, 02:08 PM
    Not necessarily, as your supply regulates OALD tends to calm down :)
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  • @llli*2roses's Avatar
    Yesterday, 01:40 PM
    Hello, I'm a 25 year old mama of two girls ages 2 and 9 months. I am exclusively nursing my baby. Over the last week or so I've noticed underneath of my nipples is starting to get red and dry. Now it is irritated and flaky. I'm pretty sure it isn't her latch because I've had zero issues in the past and I'm making sure that she latches correctly. I don't think it's thrush because aside from the fact that it is uncomfortable when she nurses due to the dry skin, it's not really painful. I just started putting some nipple balm on it that my midwife gave me when she was born and that is helping. I'm just curious what is causing it? Any ideas? Thanks for the input! Hannah
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  • @llli*bfwmomof3's Avatar
    Yesterday, 12:28 PM
    At some point I told my toddler that the milk goes to sleep when the sun does, and when she woke at night wanting to nurse, I reminded her of that and told her we would nurse in the morning. It worked very nicely for us and it has been a long time since she asked to nurse at night (she's now almost three), she still nurses plenty during the day. Worth a try? I've seen other moms on here recommend the Jay Gordon method of nightweaning: http://drjaygordon.com/attachment/sleeppattern.html. I think you can solve this without complete weaning...
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  • @llli*bfwmomof3's Avatar
    Yesterday, 12:23 PM
    Congratulations on a year of nursing! Toddler nursing is wonderful in so many ways so enjoy it! I agree with PPs, your son's behavior towards solids sounds perfectly normal. My three kids had different rates of taking to solids so I think each kid is different. My son had very little interest in solids at age 1.
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  • @llli*bfwmomof3's Avatar
    Yesterday, 12:20 PM
    I agree with mommal's suggestions. Definitely try a smaller bottle size and paced feeding. Also, if there is milk leftover in the bottle, it's fine to continue with that bottle for the next feeding. (Some daycare providers have very strict rules about not doing this, but I imagine a family member will be more flexible.)
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  • @llli*bfwmomof3's Avatar
    Yesterday, 12:16 PM
    Have you tried nursing her while she is napping during the day, or when she is going down or coming up from naps?
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  • @llli*maddieb's Avatar
    Yesterday, 12:01 PM
    I'm not sure why the doctor is so concerned. It sounds like your baby gained 16 ounces between the end of month three and the end of month for so about 16 ounces in 30 days right? It's a little slower than average for this age but it is important to note that babies do slow down in weight gain starting at about three month this is normal. I hear you saying you make enough milk, your baby has no nutritional deficiencies that you are aware of, your baby nurses frequently and it sounds like your baby gets a good amount of milk when you are away from baby. I got to say I don't think this is a major problem here the only indication of a problem is what the chart says but charts are just guidelines, A way to signal to a doctor that he may need to look more closely at a child's health. they are not diagnostic tools. In other words a drop in percentiles in an otherwise healthy gaining baby is not enough information to order feeding methodology be drastically changed. Especially if that change is going to be detrimental to breast-feeding. Replacing meals of breast milk with cereal does not make any sense on any level. Adding cereal or formula might make sense as long as it does not replace breastmilk, and the problem is too little breast milk. However if you make plenty of breastmilk the answer really should be more breastmilk if there actually is a problem which I'm not saying there is.
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